Ni gute wabona umukunzi

Kenshi iyo abantu bashaka ubucuti bushya, bakunze gushakisha umuntu ubuzuza cg bagatekereza gusangiza ubuzima bwabo n'umuntu umeze kimwe nkabo. Bityo bakagerageza kwiyereka mu buryo bwiza bushoboka k'umukunzi batekereza wo mu gihe cyizaza. Bakagaragara nkabatagira inenge, bujuje ibyangomba, kandi bizera ko umukunzi bashaka ari nabyo nawe ashaka.

Aha hari uburyo bune bwizewe wagenderaho ukabona umukunzi

1. Hagarika gushakisha ukugwa ku mutima, ushake ibice ubuze byawe

Ibi bishobora kuba bimeze nk'ubucucu, ariko niko abantu bamwe bahuye n'abakunzi babo. Baretse kwiruka kubo bari barihaye hashize igihe kinini batandukanye, mbere bizera ko ari bo ba mbere mu buzima bwabo. Hanyuma biyemeje kwiyitaho ubwabo, kugirango bimenye kandi bemere uko bari, bikize ibikomere byakera, kandi bisuzume bateza imbere ibice bibagize.

Mu gihe cyahise, Bifuzaga kuba hamwe n'umuntu kugirango bumve bizihiwe, babone umuntu ubakunda kugirango bumve ko bakunzwe. Gutandukana n'abakunzi bakera byari bibabaje cyane kubera ko byari bimeze nko gusezeranaho, nko kumva igice cyawe cyikuvuyeho.

Icyo bavumbuye ni uko bagombaga kwiga kuba buzuye(batagabanyijwe). Kandi igihe batangiye kubikora ubuzima bwabo bwarahindutse.

2. Ba mu buzima bwawe nk'uko ushaka kububamo

Niyo utangiye kuvumbura byinshi kuri wowe no gukurikiza inzira yawe, utangira kubaho mu buzima bufite igisobanuro kuri wowe. Ntabwo uba ugikurikiza amategeko n'ibitekerezo by'undi muntu by'ibyo wagakwiriye gukora.

Ibi bishobora guca intege abantu baguhora hafi buri gihe, nk'umuryango. Ariko niba ushaka kunyurwa mu buzima bwawe, ugomba kwiyitaho ubwawe, ntawundi ubigukoreye.

Kandi gukora ibiri mu buryo bwawe bisobanuye ko uzaba ahantu henshi, ahantu uzaba wegereye abantu bari k'umurongo w'inzira yawe. Bityo uzagira amahirwe menshi yo guhura n'uwakuguye ku mutima, kubera ko uwakuguye ku mutima nawe azaba ari mu nzira y'ubuzima bwawe.

3. Hagarika kugerageza kugaragara iruhande rw'umuntu watekereje, umukunzi ufite ubushobozi

Ikinyuranyo cy'uko uyobora ubuzima wahisemo ni uko kuba umuntu ukurura cyane abandi byikora. Uhinduka uw'ukuri, wemewe, ukwiye, w'agaciro, ufite ishyaka, wishimye, kandi uhari (ugezweho). Ibi bizatuma uba mwiza muri kamere yawe, mu nzira zitakugoye, kandi bizatuma ukurura abakugwa k'umutima.

N'aho igihe ugeregeza kwigira umuntu ukurura abandi kugirango ubone umukunzi, uba uhindura uko witwara maze ukisobanura mu buryo uwagukunze nahagera, adashobora ku kumenya.

Kubera iyo mpamvu, ba wowe, yaba ushaka kwambara imyenda ihenze cg imyenda ibabwira, ifite ibiraka, igezweho cg niba ibyo ukunda bihinduka mu bihe bitandukanye. Ntabwo ukeneye ibiro runaka, umukaya munini cg kwambara inkweto ziruhanyije utazikunda. Jya muri gym gusa niba ubikunda, kora yoga niba ubikunda, genda n'amagaguru cg n'ubwato cg n'igare niba unezerwa nabyo.

Umufasha muzabana igihe kirekire ntabwo azafata icyemezo kubijyanye n'ibyo ukunda byatuma ugaragara. Bityo reba ibyo wumva biri mu buryo bwawe, kora ibikorwa wishimira, ambara imyambaro igukwiriye, wumva unyuzwe. Uzakurura cyane ukugwa ku mutima niba ugaragara nka we igihe uzahura nawe.

4. Niba ukuruwe n'imyitwarire myiza iri mu w'undi muntu, shaka nawe uko wateza imbere iyo myitwarire muri wowe

Benshi muri twe twerekana gusa agace gato kabo turi bo. Twizitira ku bushobozi bwiza dufite, ugasanga twarabaye mu bisubizo mu bihe by'ubwana bwacu. Bikaba ari ibihe tutashobora kwirinda biba mu buryo bwi mikurire. Kubera ko tuba dufite guforoma imyitwarire cg ubwirasi, bidushoboza kubaho tukizera gutsinda mu miryango yacu no mu mibanire tugirana n'abandi bantu.

Kugirango ubone umukunzi mu gihe gito. Bana n'ubuzima, wemere impano baguha.
Igihe uhuye n'umuntu, ntukihutishe ibintu, jya ureka ubucuti bufunguke